I don't have a girlfriend.
Teen girls are just as horny and obsessed with sex as teen boys
For the moment, it's more about what you do at parties. If you get with a girl at a party, then that gives you more man points, more ego points.
You want people to know what you have done at the weekend — if you've met a girl, if you've kissed — but you want them to know without showing off. With all the communications people use, they will probably find out what you have done without you even having to tell them.
For teenage boys, it's all about what girls look like: if I was to kiss a girl who had got a good reputation, someone who does not get around, that would be more highly regarded. The longest I've been with a girlfriend is two months.
I was younger then — it was a year ago. Teen girl want sex meet her at a park after school, once or twice a week: I wouldn't have said it was love, because we got bored after five or six weeks.
I didn't sleep with her — it would probably have to be with someone I actually really like. I haven't been in love. I think when you are in love, there is a certain feeling that you are not bored seeing someone. I think at our age, people get bored very easily — I don't really want a girlfriend at the moment. Having a girlfriend is more about commitment, and I don't think commitment is widely regarded as a cool thing. Making out with girls at parties is much more what people — boys — aspire to. I don't think it's the same for girls.
If you get with someone, it means you kissed them, or made out with them — not that you slept with them. Most of the girls I meet are on Facebook, so I wouldn't take her. I'd find her on Facebook, add her as a friend and contact her like that. I first started using internet porn a couple of years ago. I'd never buy a porn mag teen girl want sex why would you?
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It's all free on the computer. It's possible that my parents know I look at it on teen girl want sex computer at home, the one I share with my younger sister. I think they might not want me to look at it, but I'm not sure — we haven't talked about it. They're quite shy about that kind of thing. When I was 10 and my sister was 11, my mum showed us how to use a condom: she demonstrated using a banana. My parents always wanted to make sure I knew everything I needed to know. They were very open.
I remember it being slightly embarrassing, but I'm glad she did it. She wanted to get to us before we refused to listen. It was nice learning slowly — so I didn't panic when I got my first period or started thinking about sex. Last year, a friend of mine didn't know how, so I showed her on a banana. I've been going out with someone for the past year and eight months — that's a long relationship.
I've known him since I was eight and we've been friends for years. He asked me out when I was We'd been on holiday together, and realised that we got on really well. I had sex for the first time when I was We had been going out for two months and 12 days. I remember it pretty clearly: it was a weird experience, the first time. We'd talked about it first, so I felt I was ready; I felt really comfortable with him. In some ways it was a big deal, in other ways it was not like it changed everything.
It was more fun than serious. I told my friends at school straight away. But people expect you to have sex at I have one friend who teen girl want sex been with someone for a year and not done more than kissed, and people think that's a bit strange.
I think most want to get it out of the way when they are you don't want to be abnormal. For guys it matters more — they have to have done it. Teen girl want sex girls there is not the same pressure. But on the other hand, people do lie. A lot of people think everyone is having sex and it's not true. I told my Mum a few months afterwards, when I wanted to go on holiday with my boyfriend.
She asked me if I'd had sex with him. She was cool about it, but said she hoped I was using contraceptives.
I was like, "Shut up, Mum. My friends have been panicked a lot about being pregnant. Most are on the pill and they completely freak out if they've forgotten to take it; then they have to buy pregnancy tests. A couple of girls in my sister's year have had children, but none of my friends have. I know if I had a baby now, it would stop me getting any qualifications and my partner would stop studying and have to go into full-time work.
It would stop teen girl want sex of our lives from happening properly. I wouldn't want to have at this age.
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I'd want to wait until I was in my 20s. I don't want the relationship to end, but if it did, it wouldn't be the end of the world. There are a lot of guys out there. We are still quite young. I've been going out with my boyfriend for seven months.
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It's hard to tell if it's love, but I do tell him I love him and he says "I love you" back. I think you grow into love. We have similar interests, goals and aims. We are both Christians and like classical music. He's the third boyfriend I've had and the most serious.
I first had a boyfriend when I was 13; we were together for nine or 10 months. I kissed him, but that wasn't very important. It was more about having a buddy at school. We didn't see each other much outside school: he wasn't taking things teen girl want sex seriously and he was annoying me, so I ended it.
I liked it when I began to realise guys found me attractive in that kind of way. That gave me a new kind of confidence. My friends were very impressed. His friends gave him quite a hard time for going out with me, because I wasn't like a lot of the other girls: I wasn't interested in looking super-feminine, like a Wag. In the end I was quite hurt by him.
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He started going out with someone new two weeks after we split up. My parents did ask me once if I wanted to talk about sex.
I said no. My family takes religion seriously: I think my parents' expectation would be that I wouldn't sleep with a boyfriend before marriage.
That was part of the reason why I felt so awful when I did sleep with my boyfriend earlier this year. I told him we shouldn't do it again. I hadn't wanted to sleep with anyone until we were married.